Honey works better than Vinegar

                     I've learned recently, as in yesterday, that honey works a lot better that vinegar. This is metaphorical of course:)
                     I believe that when you act with kindness (no matter how much you don't like the person or what they're doing to you) you are the better person. Now i'm not saying that I always act with kindness or "honey" but i believe its something everybody should work towards. If you've ever heard the saying kill em with kindness then you definitely know what I am rambling on and on about. I just think that acting with honey will help you in the long run. I learned this through another person yesterday who made it clear she was acting with vinegar and it made me think about how to go about protecting ones feelings. Honey is the way to do that. You act with honey towards somebody you like/ respect and are close to.
                  Sometimes I wish that i could act with more vinegar towards people to their face instead of behind their back so that they know what I'm feeling and I don't have to beat around the bush. I think that you should act with kindness (honey) but sometimes it's just better when you are honest/ blunt and if that percived as vinegar then so be it. It depends of the situation and who you are talking to plus the amount of respect you have towards that person or the situation. I believe that you watch yourself and your reputation in public and such because thats what is expected.
                  A person deserves a certain amount on honey and vinegar to have the perfect concoction in their life. To reach the right amount you have to judge who you are and what the situation is.
Currently Philosophical,
Mattie:)